Skip to main content

Thursday Afternoon Update

Here are a few of the details. The lumbar drain went in well, but her blood pressure and stress response got really bad after they started draining the cerebral spinal fluid. Part way through the night she was so agitated that it took 5 of us including a big man to hold her down so she didn't thrash around so much to pull out her drain. After that they sedated her more and those drugs didn't seem to work well because she wasn't responding to us so we could see how she was actually doing. She was having breathing problems and it just got worse. By morning (my early morning - 7 am) they had decided to take the drain out.

They had to sedate her again for removing the lumbar drain and it again made her really non-responsive and have more breathing problems. Later in the morning, I think about 10am, the doctors decided to take her off all the medicines including the pain meds so they could get her back to a baseline and get her responding to us and answering questions again.

It took a few hours for the meds to wear off, but she got back to answering questions and was talking somewhat clearly. She's still a bit slurred in her speech, but could count fingers correctly and answer questions. She'll follow directions and give an opinion (argue) which is a wonderful thing to hear. (I'm not sure I'll be saying that once we're home again.)

They got enough responses that they were able to give her morphine again and just gave her a milder sedative that really helped with the pain and her anxiety response. I'm feeling like she's getting back to where she was before the lumbar drain. It's taking some time, but she's starting to gain ground again.

She's going to have a CTV scan (a CAT scan the focuses on the veins) in a few minutes and she's finally sleeping and breathing more normally. She responds when we try to arouse her and can even help slide herself up the bed. So things aren't as worrisome as they were earlier today and last night. It's been one difficult morning.

Please keep praying for Aimee, us, her doctors and that she'll heal well. I truly appreciate all your support and love!

~Wendee

Comments

  1. Im so glad thing are going better. We love you guys, hang in there. Please tell Aimee that we all love her and are praying for her all through the day. Please tell me if I can do anything to help out. love ya bets

    ReplyDelete
  2. Hi Wendee,
    I'm following your blog now. I'm praying for you guys, all of you. Love, RuthAnn

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Friday Update

I'm sorry if we didn't get you called and you find out this way, but my sweet Aimee didn't surive. She's still on a respirator so her heart is beating but she's not with us. I'm really struggling right now. We haven't told our younger kids yet and I need to get some sleep so I can think. I'll try to post again later today.

1 Year Mark

It's really hard for me to believe that 1 year has gone by. The last week was really hard. Two weeks ago I started having nightmares reliving the events of the last week of Aimee's life on Earth. After about a week of that I started getting better sleep without the nightmares, but still not really that great. During the day that week I was having flashbacks to what we were doing at that time a year ago. As you can imagine all of this really piqued my emotions. It was frustrating because logically I know I can't change the events and these nightmares and daymares weren't helping, but they'd come despite my knowledge of their futility. It has gotten better. Saturday we went to the cemetery to leave some flowers at Aimee's spot. We dug down about a foot and a half to find her marker. If we didn't know exactly where it was and the flowers from Christmas weren't there it would have been really hard to find. The flowers from Christmas were frozen in water ab...

Video of Aimee Singing

I thought that as time went on it would get easier and I wouldn't hurt so much, but honestly it's getting harder. It seems wrong to me that life can just go on as usual without Aimee here. I'm finding joy here and there, but it is all mixed in with sorrow. It's odd to me that such opposite emotions can coexist. I want to remember the happy times with Aimee and not focus so much on the absence, but that doesn't always work so well. Today I was looking at old videos and decided to edit one and post it here. Last year at Herriman High Aimee was in the Theater Showcase. She was so excited and chose to sing "I Know it's Today" from Shrek the Musical. Jann Boyer , Aimee's voice teacher, helped her pick out the song. We had fun going to Hale Theater's costume rental site and picking out the dress she wore. She also had some last minute rehearsals with Jann that she loved! Aimee did an amazing job performing this song! She has such a beautiful vo...